Just a female twenty something biromantic asexual & feminist that likes to tumble about nerdy things like video games, cartoons/anime, and movies along with really random things in between.

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Okay, guy, so why do you feel like you want/need/deserve to settle down with a “pure” woman? I’m genuinely listening. “Oh, it’s because sluts are gross.” Too vague. Do better. “Well, their vaginas are real stretched out and big.” No. “Ummmmm, they probably have a bunch of diseases?” Easy fix! Setting aside the fact that plenty of women contract STIs from monogamous partners or during “safe sex,” it sounds like your real problem here is with illness, not sex. So I assume you’d be fine dating a promiscuous woman who practiced safe sex and happened to be STI-free? “No, because I want a girl who’s traditional and family-oriented.” Having sex doesn’t mean you don’t want to have a family. It just means that you want to have sex. “Yeah, but a slut is more likely to cheat on me.” Really? Then why do couples in the Bible Belt have such a high divorce rate? “The devil, I guess?” NOPE. “I just can’t stand the thought of her getting fucked by all those other guys.” So you’re about to have sex with a woman you’re attracted to, you really want to have sex with her, but all you can think about is her getting pounded by tons and tons of dicks? That sounds like an entirely different issue. “No! I just mean that I struggle with the same powerlessness and insecurity that all human beings do, so as a coping mechanism I take advantage of our culture’s patriarchal power structure and exorcize my feelings of worthlessness by perpetuating shame-based proprietary attitudes over women’s bodies. Basically I’m obsessed with controlling women’s lives because I can’t control my own.” Oh, honey. I know.

Female ‘Purity’ Is Bullshit

Hitting the bullshit nail right on its head. 

Feminists don’t hate men, we hate the bullshit power structure that exists that allows men to take advantage of women rather than dealing with their emotions. 

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jacklullaby:

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men should take advantage of the lack of dress code rules set for guys and wear mini skirts and tank tops to school every day

OH MY GOD  LAST YEAR THE DUDES ON MY CLASS HAVE DONE IT

AND THEY GOT ALL CALLED IN THE PRINCIPAL’S ROOM

BUT THEY DIDNT GOT IN TROUBLE BECAUSE

THEY SAID EXACTLY IT “BUT THOSE RULES ARE ONLY FOR GIRLS”

I’M NOT EVEN JOKING

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demothi: likethesunwewilllivetorise: nerdshaveallthefun: gruntledandhinged: ALL of this. Encourage people to try new words, to mess them up, to experiment with vocabulary, to learn complicated adjectives and verbs and nouns, because words are fun. Also, don’t be a jerk. AMEN SISTAH. PREACh Omg thank you. I had some literally call me “stupid” because I pronounced laceration wrong (I used a hard K rather than a soft C, don’t judge me). I’ve mispronounced so many words because I learned them from just reading independently and nobody told me dictionary.com had that audio function. Wait… it has an audio function… crap…. Right? I didn’t know until literally my creative writing class in college when my teacher decided to use it at one time to remember if she was pronouncing something correctly. I was just. “IT HAS AN AUDIO FUNCTION?” The megaphone next to the word is what lets you hear the word being said.

demothi:

likethesunwewilllivetorise:

nerdshaveallthefun:

gruntledandhinged:

ALL of this. Encourage people to try new words, to mess them up, to experiment with vocabulary, to learn complicated adjectives and verbs and nouns, because words are fun.

Also, don’t be a jerk.

AMEN SISTAH. PREACh

Omg thank you. I had some literally call me “stupid” because I pronounced laceration wrong (I used a hard K rather than a soft C, don’t judge me). I’ve mispronounced so many words because I learned them from just reading independently and nobody told me dictionary.com had that audio function.

Wait… it has an audio function… crap….

Right? I didn’t know until literally my creative writing class in college when my teacher decided to use it at one time to remember if she was pronouncing something correctly. I was just. “IT HAS AN AUDIO FUNCTION?”

The megaphone next to the word is what lets you hear the word being said.

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nerdshaveallthefun: gruntledandhinged: ALL of this. Encourage people to try new words, to mess them up, to experiment with vocabulary, to learn complicated adjectives and verbs and nouns, because words are fun. Also, don’t be a jerk. AMEN SISTAH. PREACh Omg thank you. I had some literally call me “stupid” because I pronounced laceration wrong (I used a hard K rather than a soft C, don’t judge me). I’ve mispronounced so many words because I learned them from just reading independently and nobody told me dictionary.com had that audio function.

nerdshaveallthefun:

gruntledandhinged:

ALL of this. Encourage people to try new words, to mess them up, to experiment with vocabulary, to learn complicated adjectives and verbs and nouns, because words are fun.

Also, don’t be a jerk.

AMEN SISTAH. PREACh

Omg thank you. I had some literally call me “stupid” because I pronounced laceration wrong (I used a hard K rather than a soft C, don’t judge me). I’ve mispronounced so many words because I learned them from just reading independently and nobody told me dictionary.com had that audio function.

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elementary is trying too hard to be inclusive

fans of a show whose writers are not trying at all

#because how dare they try to be realistic about the world #because obviously every show must be about white straight rich thin dudes doing white straight male stuff #how dare they acknowledge the existence of different people all at once#because in real life we never see a black man and a transexual at the same place#too much diversity #the universe says #we will never find an asian american woman and a gay man at the same place #one of them must get out so the other can get in #it’s one of the laws of nature #elementary is trying too hard to be inclusive#that’s why i don’t like it #because how dare they write women that don’t apply to the box mother/girlfriend/sisters/villain #how dare they be creative about these characters #unnacceptable #i’ll stick to my shows that are moderately inclusive#that keeps me more comfortable to continue being a piece of shit

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